Reflections on the life of my brother, Claude Elmer "Sonny" Hildebrand, Jr. by Mary E. Burke September 11, 1943 – August 11, 2005 Sonny was born September 11, 1943, the second child and only son of Claude and Mary Hildebrand. Along with his older sister, Mary, the family lived in Elkridge on Montgomery Road in the same house he called home at the time of his death. From earliest childhood, Sonny had a fascination with cars, trucks, trains, and boats. When he was nine, he and his Dad built a race car like the ones he so admired at Dorsey Speedway. His Mom made him a white satin one-piece race suit with black trim and #11 on the back after his favorite driver. He was thrilled with his new toy and it was a real hit with the boys in the neighborhood. Sonny was a Cub Scout and enjoyed being outdoors playing baseball. He also liked board games and card games, but he hated to lose. He loved the water, was an excellent swimmer and worked as a life-guard for several summers during high school. The family spent the summers at a cabin on the Severn River and Sonny used to "drive his 14 foot Chris Craft boat to work". After work, Dad would operate the speed boat and Sonny would water ski until dark. Sonny had several years of perfect attendance at school. He was an average student, but he excelled in music, wood and metal shop, and played the drums in the school band. He graduated from Howard High School in 1961. After graduation, he became a dispatcher for the Howard County Police Department. He married Agnes Haren on September 26, 1964 and together they volunteered on the first ambulance crew at Elkridge Fire Department. Their marriage ended in divorce several years later and Sonny went to work in car sales. He wore a suit and tie, grew a mustache and was an extremely successful salesman. He enjoyed car races having grown up watching the stock cars at Dorsey and in later years, he traveled to Watkins Glen, NY, Daytona, and Indianapolis for the races. Recently, he watched every race he could on TV. He had an interest in trains since our father worked as an engineer on the B and O Railroad. We always had a train garden under our Christmas tree, but Sonny took the train layout to a new level. He filled one entire room with tunnels and mountains, and he had six trains all running at the same time. He built remote controlled, boats with gasoline-engines and remote controlled airplanes, one with an eight-foot wingspan. He had infinite patience to design and manufacture intricate parts and details on these boats, planes and trains. His favorite foods included turkey and dressing, and all kinds of seafood, especially steamed shrimp and crabs. He liked corn-on-the-cob, garden tomatoes and fresh pineapple. He loved his association with Chapter A of the Gold Wing Road Runners, and served as the District Logistics Chairperson, where he used his salesmanship skills to raise funds for the organization. If you know Sonny at all, you know he had a passion for his candy apple red 3-wheel trike. His basement was his workshop and he and his friends would spend all winter tinkering with their bikes preparing for the spring riding season. He regularly traveled to Myrtle Beach, SC for Bike Week and to Ocean City for Winter-Thing. His greatest disappointment, was not being able to ride this spring due to his failing health. Since moving back to Elkridge in 1995, he has been a faithful member of Melville Chapel United Methodist Church and has served the church 8 years as Financial Secretary. Sonny lost his long battle with diabetes and kidney failure on August 11, 2005, just one month shy of his 62nd birthday. He was a loving son, a special brother, a fun-loving uncle and a good friend who will be greatly missed.